Unconditional love is a deep and often divisive issue.

Talking about love is a daily topic for me. I'm often asked about it, and I often have to restate what it means to me. The simple answer is that love is the driving force behind everything I do. If there is no love behind something - be it a decision, a relationship or even a small gesture - it doesn't really work for me.

I try to live my everyday life with unconditional acceptance of everything and everyone. This is not always easy, but I believe it is what gives life to our relationships and our actions. To be present with love - for me that is the most important foundation.

I came across this topic in a discussion yesterday, where two different perspectives emerged.

For me, unconditional love is an ideal state that is achieved through spiritual and emotional development.
Although rarely experienced in its full clarity in everyday relationships, it exists and can be learned. But according to my interlocutor, such a connection does not exist.
This opinion has highlighted that the purity of love is often influenced by our relationship with ourselves.

The essence of unconditional love is pure acceptance, free from expectations and judgement. We love someone not because of what they do or stand for, but because they exist. However, the ego often makes this love conditional and thus hinders its purity.

Are you a sceptic? Then ask yourself: Why do you think such love does not exist? An honest answer may reveal the inner limitations or pains that make it difficult for you to imagine this state. Often those who have not yet experienced pure, selfless love find it harder to believe it exists. But that doesn't mean it's impossible.

Love is often born in the small decisions of everyday life. When we let go to change someone, or when we listen without judgement. It doesn't mean accepting everything, but seeing the other person as they are - and still turning to them with an open heart.

Unconditional love starts with accepting ourselves. When we can be at peace with our own faults, fears and past, it becomes possible to see others without judgement. This inner clarity leads to true connection, in which love depends on the giver, not the receiver.

True love is born out of wisdom and understanding - the ability to see the other person as they are, with all their imperfections.
This love does not possess, does not want to change, and does not impose conditions.
An inner state that accepts the world and people as they are.

When we are able to move beyond judgement and help others with an open heart, love becomes not just a feeling, but a force for action.
This love is the basis of all deeper human connection.

The wisdom lies in recognising that everyone is on their own path, evolving at their own pace. And understanding lies in being able to turn to those paths with compassion, even if they are different from our own.

It's a process, not a state that you achieve overnight. Over time, as our relationship with ourselves and others deepens, this love gradually unfolds. 

Unconditional love is not a dream, but a state that can be learned and practiced. 

It starts with self-acceptance and openness to the world, but over time it permeates our relationships.

Where does it start?
- Benned. 

Hari OM 
Reni

- Thank you also for the discussion yesterday, which inspired me deeply. These loving conversations create a clear and deep connection between two people. 

With love, 

Reni